Holly's Personal dating page

I want to cut Way back on breeding... at least on breeding cats..... now on a personal note...
 I want to learn how again :-)

  The past 25 years of my life I have thrown my passion into making my business successful. Animals have been my only passion since my marriage was one totally lacking in physical or emotional satisfaction. We were and still are good friends. But I have come to the point where I am totally disgusted with living with a man who can not tolerate touch and who does not have the ability to trust..  I have been a faithful companion, comfortable and happy on some levels, but I need more. Now that I am divorced I am legally and emotionally free to look for what I need.

 I Need to
give and get Hugs

there are Many kinds of hugs that say many things.

comforting a baby to sleep.
comforting a child who has fallen and is crying.
friends saying Hello or good-by, I am glad you are part of my life.

Between couples there are 2  kinds of hugs besides the comforts and greetings above.

1. This is the strong shoulder to cry on hug....  It says the world can be shitty right now but I still  love you.
This is when things do not go smoothly. An illness or accident. A business dealing gone bad. a lost job.  a sick pet... A hug to comfort and relieve anything that upsets your balance of security.. Anything that upsets you and makes your heart ache.
This warm tender hug is all encompassing. To mesh your body tenderly close to someone else and let them know you will keep them safe and secure in your heart and arms. This hug gives the other person some of your strength.  It helps them to forget the rest of the world exists... a little vacation from the harsh realities of life. Thus enabling the person to relax and accept the events of the world as they unfold...
This very important hug says go ahead and cry, let it out. Then you can relax and get on with enjoying your life and
OUR TIME TOGETHER....

2.  the ultimate expression of passion with your clothes on... Hug me as I hug you, Rub your arms around me, rub your body against mine, let me feel you heat, make me dizzy with lust until I have an orgasm.... this is for those intimate times when we are not in a time or place to undress and enjoy each other more deeply.

For many years I have had to be my own strength while feeling emotionally empty....

I need to give and to get ALL these kinds of hugs....
 

I want to go back
to play in the
warm salty sea
 

This was my first trip to the Caribbean and I LOVED the warm salty water and sunny beaches. One time of kissing a stingray is enough.

My first x-husband... I was married from 17 years old until 21... Asked me to move in with him and try again in fall of 2007. This adventure into the past started out  wonderfully romantic and passionate.
If nothing else he does know how to treat a lady... when he is sober...  including candle light dinners of stake and lobster that he cooked at home... dancing in the kitchen to Slow and Reggie music.... a cruse and time on his yacht.

 I was so excited about the possibilities for our future that when my divorce from Geoff was finalized I went back to using Tom's last name of Lynn. I like the sound of Holly Lynn :-)
After 5 months of living a fairytale...  Tom started drinking heavy again and ruined it....

In June 2008 I came back to my house on my ranch in the peaceful green hills of W.V.
Being to far out in the country I purchased a home in Charleston WV and plan to move there fall or winter 2009.

I have met a few men.... and I have learned a few things about what I am looking for and looking to avoid ...

I am not looking for a man just for his money... but I will not support a man either!
I can not afford to travel far or often. And do not enjoy traveling and doing things by myself.  I need someone to share  the expense and adventures and happiness.

I will search until I find what I want then I am happy and work hard to hang on to it and make it work and last as long as we aer both happy.

I need a man that is clean, drug free, healthy, romantic, passionate and compassionate as well as financially secure.
Are you the man to make my eyes sparkle by sharing our passion and love?